I also understand about feeling torn between countries. Although, I am more of a Sybil - the woman with several distinct personalities.
Between my mother and father, I get no less than eight nationalities! French, Canadian, Italian, Norwegian, Native American, Czechoslovakian, Scottish, and Irish.
I am more Scottish than anything else, however. I also identify with my Scottish heritage more than any other.
This year I became a Scottish Laird, so I proudly use my legal title.