Deities, How do you find the right one for you ?

In my book, it is perfectly ok. One can't help who they are connected to. Some people may disagree.

Is there any one else who has information or theries? I am open to what every one has to say.

If this seems like a private conversation between 2 people , It's not, Not many of you have answered my questions. A few of you have answered them to a point where it makes me think and ask more questions.

If one wants to truely know something about anything, then they should always forst know what questions they are asking, Rider. I learned the hard way, that if you just ask for general information, then that is exactly what you will get. In High school, I aimlessly read anything I could find about trains. I can now tell you that the Tom Thumb in 1831 was where it started, and the John Bull was the first locomotive with a leading truck. I can also tell you that until the invention of the automatic knuckle couplers used today, many railroad workers were mamed or killed while trying to put the trains together. In the end, none of this information actually means anything. It means nothing, because it does not answer a question. You will, hopefully, always have questions about anything you seek to know more about, the trick then, is to ask that question to the right souls who might have your answer. don't be general, be specific on exactly what do you want to know.

If you don't ask exactly what you want to know, then you only get trivia in the end. In this case, perhaps you asked the wrong way. try changing the question to lead the answers =)

Aaediwen, I have asked several questions so far in this thread, are you sure you read the whole thing?

If you did then can you answer the questions I have asked?

Appologies, M'lady. I didn't recall beyond the initial question. indeed, it has been a while since I actually read through the thread. perhaps I should do so again. That or stay out of it.

The latest goddess is Aon Doanna, the self proclaimed goddess of evil.

No Aaed, please don't stay out of it, I'de like to hear what you have to say.

Maisky (lmao) the only Goddess of Evil I recognize is Raven Whitefang... now that woman is evil and my best Friend too. hehehehe

<----throwing in his .02 ...

I think that whenever choosing your Higher Power, whatever name He/She/It has, that that choice can only be made from the heart, not the head. Research different practices, and then go with your instinct.

A rose by any other name.....

you make a great point, or maybe I should simply stop TRYING to find it /them /he /she.

Light a candle and sit yourself down in front of it. put on some soothing music and with a clean sheet of paper write you wish down.
Something like this:

Mindful of the goodness of the earth and the gifts that are given to me.
I call upon the Divine for guidance.
May the Divine assist my footsteps towards my true path.
May the Divine show me their true nature and form.
May the Divine reveal their joyus name that I may draw closer to them.
May the Divine grant me the ability to carry out my work, both wisely and well.
Blessed Be the Divine Power that I call upon and may my true vocation be made clear.

Meditate upon what you have written.
Next either put out the candle by snuffing it or let it burn out.
Place the paper with the wishes under your pillow and sleep on it.

Your search may take time but it will bare fruit in time.

Brightest Blessings in your search
Jaxom

Thanks Jaxom, It certainly can not hurt to try it.

Angel
You are most welcome and I wish you well in your search. May you find a light to guide you in your true path.
BB
Jax

Thank you Jax,
May the Lord and Lady Light your Path to the pure bliss of knowledge.
Blessed Be


I know several of you and others I don't know all that well. I am going to ask you all for your prayers, spells, or how ever you choose to do what you do, for my husband Jason. He is in a dreadful depression and feels that he is worthless. I have talked with him for months about this and have been sending him positive energy, his business is failing and I feel it has alot to do with a negative spirit that has been placed upon him, we have saged the house and the office but to no apparent avail. We have done a Black Candle Cleansing, I am still boiling herbs on a daily basis and meditating. If any of you would be willing to help me in this situation I would be eternally grateful.

May the Goddess Bless you in all you do

Humbly,
Angel

I am no medicine woman, so all I hve to go from here is my own experiences.

I think you have done all you can, dear. He is at the point where he has to want to get better. Bopiing herbs and meditating can only go so far if he doesnlt want to get better. He will have to do it himself, and nobody else can make it better for him. Have you suggested visiting a counselor? Even as a couples thing at first, it may get his foot in the door.



And above all be supportive!