I know my ex's family has alcohol problems and I was always after him that he didn't NEED that beer every day when he came home from work. So, I was a nag about it but I didn't want to see him fall into the same pattern. I know he drinks - don't know how much - but I'm not there to be the nag anymore.
Now my SO has alcoholism in his family (I know how to find them, don't I?) and he doesn't drink a drop. Thank you, lord. In fact, I almost never drink because of that. We've been together nearly 5 years and I probably have less drinks per year than you can count on one hand. (Exception is the occasional Guinness, of course)
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