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Posted by: Rindy 11-Jan-2009, 11:18 AM
I just wanted to ask for your prayers for my father as I found out that he passed away this morning.

Slainte

Posted by: Lady-of-Avalon 11-Jan-2009, 11:34 AM
QUOTE (Rindy @ 11-Jan-2009, 12:18 PM)
I just wanted to ask for your prayers for my father as I found out that he passed away this morning.

Slainte

Oh! Rindy,

Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family...the loss of one parent is always a most difficult and hard one...my thoughts and prayers are for you on this day...and though there is no real words of comfort that I can say except that I wish you courage and may you find peace within your soul.

Diane a.k.a Lady of Avalon hug.gif

Posted by: TheCarolinaScotsman 11-Jan-2009, 11:44 AM
Rindy, I too wish to offer my condolences. Losing a parent is something most of us go through, but it is never easy. I know you miss him, but understand that he will always be with you..in your memory, in the words of wisdom or humor that come at unexpected times, in the little quirks you have that are like him, in any of a hundred different ways, he is there. And that's not even mentioning his love that will always be there too. No words can fill the loss, but know that your friends are here for you.

Posted by: valpal59 11-Jan-2009, 11:46 AM
I am so sorry Rindy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Hugs to you. hug.gif
Val

Posted by: Camac 11-Jan-2009, 12:17 PM
Rindy;


You have my most sincere and deepest condolences on the loss of your Father. It is really hard when someone who has been there all your life is now gone. If I may though, also rejoice for he has started out on a new journey that leads to wonders unimagined. May the Creator watch over and guide him in his travels.



Camac.

Posted by: haynes9 11-Jan-2009, 02:54 PM
Rindy,

I have been where you are and it certainly is challenging and difficult. My family and I will certainly be keeping you and yours in prayer before our dear Lord. I trust that good memories will fill your heart and mind as you deal with this.

Take care and know that your Celtic Radio family is thinking of you.

Posted by: Robert Phoenix 11-Jan-2009, 03:22 PM
Rindy,
My condolences on your loss. I'll offer up prayers and hope lots of good and positive memories are sent to you by God our Father. This is indeed a difficult time but I know you will come through it. Get some rest and don't forget to take care of yourself in what will be a hetic and emotional time. We are all here for you.

Posted by: Harlot 11-Jan-2009, 03:32 PM
Rindy,

You will be in my thoughts and prayers and like everyone has said he will always be with you,in a butterfly,a bird singing,a rainbow, even when the phone rings and no one is there just say "Hi Dad I'm all right".


Harlot

Posted by: Dogshirt 11-Jan-2009, 06:01 PM
My deepest sympathies to you at this time. It is never easy to lose a loved one.


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Posted by: deadeye08 11-Jan-2009, 06:04 PM
Rindy,

My deepest condolences for your loss. I pray that even in this time that you find peace and joy and that God's love will wrap around you and your family and give you the strength and comfort that you need. Amen!

Sincerely,
Rodgar

Posted by: lschillinger 11-Jan-2009, 06:51 PM
Rindy my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this difficult time. Losing a parent is never easy. I know there are no magic words that make it better.

My deepest sympathies,

Lindsey

Posted by: Shadows 11-Jan-2009, 07:12 PM
Rindy, I will send up smoke in his memory and for you and yours!

Posted by: Mailagnas maqqas Dunaidonas 11-Jan-2009, 07:17 PM
Rindy,
Thoughts and prayers heading your way.
May your memories of your father sustain you in your time of sorrow.

Posted by: JayHenson 11-Jan-2009, 09:10 PM
Rindy,
I am very sorry for your loss and I will keep you in my thoughts. Everyone has said the words I would use but know as well that it only helps a little bit when the pain is so strong. You have friends here and I know we all wish we could be there to hug you and give you a shoulder to cry on. But know that we are here when you need to talk and to help you get back on your feet.

Deep peace to you,

Jay

Posted by: maggieh52 11-Jan-2009, 11:05 PM
Rindy,
I'm new to this site, but just have to tell you I am so sorry for your loss. My Dad passed in November, and my Mom four years ago. I miss them more than ever in the physical, but I know they are always with me in spirit. I often feel their loving presence and reassurance.
Just this afternoon I pulled an Angel Card, which was from Archangel Azrael, the angel who helps people transition through the veil to the other side. The message was: "Hello from Heaven!", "Your loved ones in Heaven are doing fine. Let go of worries, and feel their loving blessings."
May the angels be with you in this difficult time.

Maggie

Posted by: Madadh 12-Jan-2009, 05:58 AM
Rindy,

Everyone has already said what I wanted to, so just know my prayers are with you and your family.

Posted by: Leelee 12-Jan-2009, 07:27 AM
Rindy,

I am so sorry for your loss; you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know that they are happy. Author Unknown

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love. Leo Buscaglia

Posted by: j Padraig moore 12-Jan-2009, 10:15 AM
So sorry Rindy. Been there and done that and believe me - it's not fun.
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Posted by: flora 12-Jan-2009, 05:14 PM
Rindy:

May I add my thoughts and prayers for you and your family? Isn't it wonderful to know that you have so many caring and praying for you? God bless.

Flora

Posted by: WizardofOwls 12-Jan-2009, 06:09 PM
Hi sweetie!

I just wanted to add my condolensces to the rest. I lost my dad when I was around 14, so I didn't really have time to get to know my dad like you did, so I can understand how much harder this is for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Luv you dear!
Allen

Posted by: gaberlunzie 13-Jan-2009, 08:28 AM
"If you are looking for me,
look into your hearts.
This is where I have a home,
this is where I'm always with you."

(Antoine de Saint-Exupery)

Dear Rindy, my heartfelt condolences. hug.gif

Posted by: stoirmeil 13-Jan-2009, 01:48 PM
Rindy --
He has a life in your memory, and a little spark of it is in the memory of everyone who knew him. When you feel like you can, tell us about him too.
We're here and thinking about you.
stoirmeil

Posted by: Rindy 16-Jan-2009, 10:16 AM
I just want to say thank you all for your thoughts, and prayers and kind words of support. It has helped me very much.

Losing a parent is very hard. The deacon had an example of everytime you cry think of it as your heart having a big hole and everytime you cry it scabs over and heals until finally you are left with a very small hole. It never goes away completely as the memory of them are still with you. Another person said congratulations to Dad on his promotion. I thought that was kind of cool.

You folks are the best! Thank you again.


Slainte

Posted by: stevenpd 16-Jan-2009, 11:53 AM
You have my heartfelt condolences on your loss. My prayers are with you and your family in these time of woe.

Posted by: Siobhan Blues 21-Jan-2009, 10:09 AM
Oh sweetie, I just saw this post today - I am so very sorry for your loss. Everyone here has been so eloquent, so I join them in expressing sincere sympathy to you and your family.

Posted by: delainesunshine1978 21-Jan-2009, 02:54 PM
Rindy,
I am sorry to read about your father. I see some time has past, not a lot but I hope your doing ok. I wish I had been around sooner to have left you a nice card. I am thinking about you smile.gif

Posted by: Rindy 25-Jan-2009, 11:10 AM
Thank you stevenpd, SB and delainesunshine1978 that's very thoughtful of you.


Slainte

Posted by: CelticRadio 25-Jan-2009, 04:44 PM
Rindy,

My deepest apologies to you and your family. Losing a parent is so difficult, no matter what the age. Here is a little poem I have posted elsewhere on here that you might find some small comfort from these words:

I’m Free

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free
I’m following the path God laid for me.
I took His hand when I heard him call
I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that place at the close of day.

If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My Life’s been full, I savored much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one’s
touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me
God wanted me now, He set me free.

Posted by: Rindy 25-Jan-2009, 06:21 PM
Thank you so very much Celtic Radio. That is a comforting poem. I really appreciate the support that I've found here on Celtic Radio. Your all the best! Thanks again.

Slainte

Posted by: iolanda 26-Jan-2009, 05:16 PM
Dear Rindy,
I apologize because I've just known about your Dad...
There are no words to describe what happens inside us in these moments..
I've lost mine when I was 14 and every day he's in my memories....
I'm very sorry for you and your family Rindy. I'm near you with all my heart....
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Posted by: JayHenson 26-Jan-2009, 06:02 PM
Rindy

Here are a couple of songs that are comforting to me and 2 that I want played at my own memorial to hopefully help those I love find comfort

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ag_vltbWHz8&feature=channel_page

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2aLSat3h0w&feature=related

These are sung by Libera.

I really hope they bring you some measure of peace.


Hugs

Jay

Posted by: Rindy 27-Jan-2009, 07:41 PM
Thank you so very much iolanda that is very kind of you. I appreciate it.

Thank you for the links Jay. I felt them most comforting. I've not heard of Libera til now. What talent. Thank you for the support.

Slainte

Posted by: ogdenmusic 07-Feb-2009, 09:59 AM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Posted by: Rindy 07-Feb-2009, 09:44 PM
Thank you ogdenmusic your very kind.

Slainte

Posted by: celticlord 07-Feb-2009, 11:49 PM
Please accept our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Celticlord and CelticQueen

Posted by: Rindy 09-Feb-2009, 10:08 AM
Thank you so very much Celticlord and CelticQueen it's appreciated.

Posted by: gallesjrrt 09-Feb-2009, 11:13 AM
Rindy, I'm so sorry to see this topic. And I'm sorry that my laziness kept from from being here for you sooner. I'm fortunate to still have both of my parents, but a friend of mine recently lost her father to a sudden heart-attack (he was only a year older than me!). An only child, she was left with wrapping up his business in two fields (accountant and nurse), clean up his condo for sale, deal with relatives, etc. Seems to me that the tragedy isn't always just (!) the death, but the grief and difficult work that follows that death. I hope that you are getting a lot of support from your local friends and family, and that you've been able to take some comfort in the sincere good wishes sent to you by the members here.

Love and hugs to you and your family!

Posted by: dundee 09-Feb-2009, 02:11 PM
oh rindy!! i am so sorry i understand your pain.

my dad left in 1988 and you know what? You dont ever
stop missing him. I cried just Saturday night on the way home
from "Lord of the Dance" when this song came on the radio
by MercyMe "Finally Home"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0EkI0WE4Aps


I’m gonna wrap my arms around my daddy’s neck
And tell him that I’ve missed him.
And tell him all about the man that I became
And hope that it pleased him

There’s so much I want to say
There’s so much I want you to know

Chorus
When I finally make it home
When I finally make it home

Then I’ll gaze upon the throne of the King
Frozen in my steps
And all the questions that I swore I would ask
Words just won’t come yet

So amazed at what I’ve seen
So much more than this old mind can hold

Chorus

Bridge
And the sweetest sound my ears have yet to hear
Voices of the angels

There is Hope.. Peace to your heart.

Posted by: Stanleyandgrimm 09-Feb-2009, 05:30 PM
Hi Rindy,

I was looking you up to see who wrote the nice comment about our music. I was very saddened to see that your father has passed. I would like to dedicate tomorrow my track Caledonia's Wail for Neil Gow in his honor. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Nikki (stanley and grimm).

Posted by: Rindy 10-Feb-2009, 05:14 PM
gallesjrrt- It's wonderful to see you again. Thank you so very much your good wishes. I hope to see you more.

dundee -Thank you for posting this video. It's very moving. I am sorry for the loss of your father as well. I am happy that my father is finally pain free and is at peace.

Stanleyandgrimm -Thank you for dedicating your wonderful song Caledonias Wail for Neil Gow tomorrow. That is very kind of you.

Thanks to everyone for their condolences and taking the time to post. It's appreciated.

Slainte

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